Thursday, January 19, 2012

Same house as ex,i want to move on?

hi,,was with ex 10 + yrs,have a 9 year old daughter. i ended it after having years of him putting drinking/socialising above everything else,coming home drunk,smashing stuff up,being verbally nasty and abusive,i tried for years to make it work,but it was not happening due to his unwillingness to cut back on the drink(and coke),so current situation-we still live under same roof,but seperate rooms etc, i REALLY want to move on,,he must learn to stand on his own 2 feet,i still pay bills,cook,clean,do bulk of childcare etc,,and work too! he has become used to having things his way,because i couldnt deal with his verbal abuse,,it scares me.now i feel a bit stronger and determined to move on,i have applied for other acommodation and am awaiting it (i cant afford to buy on my own wage atm),my daughter is going to live with me as i am stable and dont go out boozing etc,so how do i put up with this situation until then,,im still walking round on eggshells,hes still out boozing(even as i type hes in the bar)i feel so angry and resentful at him for putting my daughter and i through this,i would like him to go until i move,so i dont have to worry about him coming home drunk at small hours etc-help! any advice gratefully recieved ,thanks!

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